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Oct 23, 2013

On Saints and Souls


November 1 is just around the corner.  In the Philippines, the days leading to this day are awash with preparations. Classes stop.  Colleges and universities go on semester breaks. The workforce plans for a skeleton crew because of the impending office shutdown on the week that this day falls.  People book flights to travel to their hometowns.  Mothers start planning the food menu.  Flower shops start increasing their inventory.  Candles are saturating stores and shops.  Tent and chair rentals surge in demand.

What's the fuss all about?  Is it Christmas already?  No, it is the celebration of All Saint's Day and All Soul's Day in the Philippines.  And it is one hell (pardon the pun) or heaven of an event.


The Mysteries of Life and Death

Undas, or Todos Los Santos, or Araw ng mga Patay, falls on November 1 and 2 of every year.  November 1 is the observance of All Saints' Day, and November 2 is All Souls' Day.


Part of the underground cemetery at Nagcarlan in Laguna

The Latin Right of the Catholic Church decrees that November 1 and 2 are Holy Days of Obligation.  All Saints Day pays honor to all the saints and martyrs that had lived and died for Christ and are now getting their rewards in Heaven.  It is believed by Filipino Catholics that the saints and martyrs, having entered into God's grace by their actions here on earth, are granted powers to intercede in behalf of the living.  Our prayers and petitions to God will be easily heard and have a higher chance of being granted when we ask the saints to pray to God for us.

All Souls' Day, which falls on November 2, is in remembrance of our loved ones who had already died.  Unlike the saints and martyrs that are now basking in the presence of God in Heaven, our  departed may still be in purgatory awaiting God's mercy.  The living need to pray unceasingly for these penitent souls for them to obtain, too, the grace of God and Heaven.  And it helps a lot if the saints' intercessions are invoked for the penitent souls in purgatory.

All Saints' Day and All Souls' Day remind the living that there are two things that can either happen to us when we die.  We either go to Heaven like the saints, or to purgatory like the penitent souls.  The observance of these days give hope that as long as we are living, we have the power to act appropriately here on earth and obtain the reward of where we go when we die.


The Day of the Dead is the Day of the Living

During the said days, we go to Church to hear Mass, visit the graves of our departed loved ones, light candles, offer prayers and flowers.  This is also a chance for Filipino families to get together and hold reunions.  Filipinos may move to different parts of the Philippines to either work, study, or take up residence, but we always find time to come back to our hometowns for Undas.  We Filipinos look forward to the mini-vacation that is also a national holiday.

Days before Todos Los Santos, airports, bus and ferry stations are packed with travelers going home to their provinces.  Road traffic increases by the end of October due to the exodus of people.  At graveyards or cemeteries, people begin the work of cleaning tombs and graves.  They pull at the yearly growth of weeds around the graves, wash the concrete slabs with soap and water, apply a fresh coat of white paint at the tombs, and patiently remove the dirt from tombstones to make the writing visible.  The local government begins putting up lights in the cemetery.  They plan the pathways, security, and first aid stations in the mini-streets of the cemetery in anticipation of visitor traffic.

At the actual days, Filipinos hear mass together as a family, either in Church or in the cemetery itself when Mass is offered.  We place flowers and candles on the graves of departed loved ones.   Some of us bring chairs and put up tents, and even bring food and drinks, with full intention of a lengthy stay up until night.

There are a lot of things to do at the cemetery.  Immediately upon arrival, we pray fervently in front of the tomb.  We love to talk to our loved ones, through the tombstone, with utmost sincerity and often with a break in our voices as if the departed can really hear across the distance of death that separates us.  We talk about missing the departed.  Then we talk about the news and goings-on in our lives, even assuring the departed that we are doing fine.

Then we sit down to hours of chatting with family and friends who drop by the tomb.  Seldom-seen relatives are welcome faces and we love to spend time catching up with them.  Later when there is a lull in visitors, we leave our loved one's tomb and take a stroll through the streets of the grave yard, stopping by now and then to greet people we know who are keeping vigil in their relative's tombs too.  More catching up and chatting.  The stroll is really a leisurely walk with many pleasant stops and starts.  When we get to the tombs of more of our relatives, we light candles and offer prayers, chat some more with cousins and uncles, and amble along.

We tend to the candles and the flowers as the day goes by.  Children love rolling up the hot melting wax around the candles into balls, watching them getting bigger and bigger, while adults constantly caution them to be careful to not get burned.

At home, we partake of food mostly made of rice or malagkit.  Arroz ala Valenciana, palitaw, sinukmani, suman, sapin-sapin and more.  But not before taking the best parts of the food, putting them in a small plate, and placing the plate in front of our altars, to offer to our departed loved ones. 

All in all, the celebration of All Saints' Day and All Souls' Day in the Philippines are deeply-tinged with spirituality, but it also have a festive feel to it.  It is the Filipinos' way of dealing with death -- to hope for a better place when we die, and to celebrate life with family and friends while we still live.



Oct 11, 2013

October - Month of the Holy Rosary



Catholics observe the month of October as the Month of the Holy Rosary.  Why?


A Turning Point in History

It was a fateful day in October 7, 1571 when forces of the powerful Ottoman Empire sailed west from their naval base in Lepanto, Greece.  They met with a Catholic maritime fleet collectively known as the Holy League.  The Christian forces were composed of Spain, Venice, some European duchies, the Knights Hospitaller, and the Papacy, among others.

Up to this time in history, the Ottoman Empire had been very successful in its goal of territorial expansion along the Mediterranean.  In early 1571, an island in the Greek territory of Cyprus named Famagusta was invaded by the Turks as part of the expansion.  The Christian coalition of the Holy League had been tasked by Pope Pius V to rescue Famagusta.

The Ottoman fleet had orders to fight all opposition forces that stood in their way, while the commander of the Christian fleet, John of Austria,  made a decision to attack to maintain the integrity of the expedition.  In a 5-hour battle, the Ottoman fleet suffered a heavy loss against the guns and ships of the Christian forces.

Many historians considered the Battle of Lepanto to be one of the most decisive naval battles in the world, one which made a turning point in history.  Historian Paul K. Davis has argued that:

"This Turkish defeat stopped Ottomans' expansion into the Mediterranean, thus maintaining western dominance, and confidence grew in the west that Turks, previously unstoppable, could be beaten."



The Battle of Lepanto, H. Letter, National Maritime Museum, Greenwich/London


The Religious Aspect

Why is there a religious significance attributed to the victory of October 7, 1571?

The victorious Holy League vocally attributed all credit of their triumph to the Virgin Mary.  The fleet had implored the Virgin Mary's intercession, asking God for victory in battle, using the Rosary.  One of the fleet commanders had the image of  Our Lady of Guadalupe at his ship's state room.  Soon after, Pope Pius V instituted  the Catholic feast day of Our Lady of Victory in thanksgiving to the Virgin Mary for the victory at the Battle of Lepanto.

Since the Virgin Mary is the Lady of Victory and also the Lady of the Rosary,  the Catholic Church now celebrates October 7 as the feast of Our Lady of the Rosary, with the entire month of October as the month of the Holy Rosary.

Since then, Catholic faithfuls have prayed the Rosary to ask for petitions and indulgences from God through the mediation of the Virgin Mary.  A plenary indulgence may be gained by the recital of the five decades of the Rosary.  The Rosary can be prayed in Churches, at home or any convenient location conducive to praying.  It can be prayed alone or privately, or together with the family, or in religious community gatherings. 

Click here for details on how to pray the Holy Rosary.



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Sep 23, 2013

Does God Really Listen and Answer Prayers?







I came across a blog once where the topic of the post is how can one be sure that God really listens to our prayers.  I did a double-take on that because it has been my long-held belief that God ALWAYS listens and answers our prayers.


There are many reasons why I believe God is always listening to our prayers, and here they are:

  • God, in all His omnipotence, has the power to listen to everyone in this planet.  Even if all 7-billion people of this planet pray at the same time, I believe He has this incredible communication network setup from Heaven to Earth and vice versa that makes sure no prayer ever gets lost.  Not even in translation due to the different languages and dialects of this planet.  Not even timezones nor religious background nor social statuses nor geographic borders.  Not even silent prayers, real-dumb prayers, one-word prayers like "help."  Nada.
  • God always welcome conversations coming from us.  He has shown this too many times in the Bible, when He talked to prophets and later when He talked to the saints.
  • God often says do not be afraid for He is near.  It's His guarantee to us that He is always there to listen to our  needs in the form of prayers or supplications.
  • God says He loves us no matter what.  When you love someone, you care enough to listen to them.  How much more God with His incomprehensible and profound love?  He listens even to the prayers of prisoners, criminals, and sinners.
And there are also several reasons why I believe God always answers our prayers, and here they are, too:

  • God is merciful.  He can't help it.  Every complaint or whisper that we send up to Him pierces His merciful heart.  
  • God loves our company.  Or else why make Adam and Eve at all?  He could have stopped at the animals and fishes.  He meant for us to have the best life that He can provide because He treats us like friends, or His very own children. 
  • God loves us. Period.

On the question: "How can we be sure that God listens to our prayers?", need we even ask this?  Shouldn't we base it on faith that He does listen?  Why the need to make sure?  If we even entertain thoughts that He may not be listening, what is the point of praying to Him?  If we are not sure that He will listen, does this mean we should quit praying?  We must have the confidence and faith that He always listens.

So if we are absolutely sure that God listens to our prayers, what should be do on our end after that?  We wait, of course.  We take the Bible passage below to heart (for this is extremely important):

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  - Jeremiah 29:11

Some prayers He answers immediately, if it is good for us.  Some He answers after a long time, and only after we have grown enough to be ready to accept the answer.  And some are even answered not in the way that we expect them.  It is based on the plans He has for us as in the Bible passage above.  One thing is sure:  He NEVER not answer our prayers.

So we wait. And pray.  And pray.  And pray some more.  We pray until our hairs turn gray.  We pray whenever or whatever the situation.  We pray while doing the dishes, just talking to Him.  In fact, if there's anything in this world that we better do and do really well, it should be praying to our God.  And when His answer comes, we pray even harder with thanks and gratitude in our hearts.  Because He always listens and always answers our prayers.


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Sep 11, 2013

Why Prayer is the Best Stress Reliever


We are biological organisms, albeit in a most advanced stage. As such, we are subject to the physical laws of biology. We are born, we grow, we die, and in between birth and death, we live. In the process of living, we encounter conditions in our environment that either hamper or promote our living. We can call these encountered conditions as stress.

Whenever conditions change, our body is built to react, and that is where the stress comes from. The way we handle stress can have a significant impact to our mental and physical well-being.

To banish stress, try prayers. There have been several studies that reveal the efficacy of prayers in alleviating health problems.



Beyond the empirical studies, many personal accounts of the stress-relieving power of prayer also circulate in the web.  It makes perfect sense that prayers can remove stress and promote good health and well-being.  Here's how:

  1. Prayer is a form of meditation.  It puts the body in a state of relaxation and rest.  Stress is at once relieved from the body when it is no longer uptight, tense or agitated.
  2. Prayer is a form of worship.  It puts the body in a state of exultation, joy and happiness.  Whatever stress in mind, body and spirit is removed and replaced by a general state of well-being.
  3. Prayer is a form of supplication.  There is a kind of release in the simple act of confiding your troubles to a personal God.  And since the relationship with a personal deity is based in the core belief that God has the power to work miracles, then the act of asking for something through prayer carries with it the confidence or the hope that a solution is forthcoming in the future, banishing worry.
  4. Prayer is a form of cleansing.  When you ask for forgiveness for wrong acts done, people slighted, negative thoughts, words and actions delivered, prayers restore and refresh the body, mind and spirit.

Getting into the regular habit of prayer can work wonders in your life, by removing stress, in such a way that no amount of stress-busting methods like entertainment, sports,  shopping or medicine can equal.